Drunken Owls and Other Delights

I'll be honest, I hadn't expected to be so LAZY during this weeklong vacation of ours! That is, it was nice to be able to sleep in for a bit every single day, getting woken up around 7am by the cats and not the alarms. We kept ourselves busy with local shopping and a lot of gardening. We didn't have much planned anyway, so I'm fine by that. I definitely need to get myself up and moving more, though, because I've gotten a bit lazy because of it all.

Our mattress shopping the other day worked out well and we should be getting our new one delivered on Monday. Which is good, because our old one is fourteen years old, sinking in places, and we're starting to slide off the now-squishy edges. We'll just have to herd the cats into the next room so they don't get underfoot of the delivery guys or sneak their way outside.

And speaking of outside, we're both rather proud of ourselves now, having done some heavy weeding yesterday around the tree plots in front of our house and replaced them with a few small borders and a few plants. There's still work to be done like getting a few more borders and perhaps some small gravel to ensure the dirt doesn't wash away, but it does look significantly better!

As for writing...I admit I've been a bit lazy there as well, but I allowed it due to the fact that I needed to debate whether or not the newly inserted scenes in Theadia should be in there after all. They were good, just that something didn't quite feel right, no matter how I tried to get them to fit. Yesterday I finally called it and edited the most recent one out, and might do the same for a few others as well.

Workwise, I see that I'm back to a shorter workweek again (sigh) but this also means that I don't need to go in until Wednesday, so I'll be here for the mattress delivery and can get other errands done that I hadn't gotten to this past week.


Hope everyone has a good week ahead!

Unlike last week, the only exciting thing we had on our list of things to do was head over to Costco to stock up. Various meats to put in the freezer in the garage, the cheap $4 rotisserie chicken, paper goods and whatnot...the usual stuff. We usually only stay there for less than an hour tops, considering we know what we're looking for, and it's the crowd chaos that keeps us from staying long. Most people are good about it, but I keep forgetting you need to have the mindset of "I need to go from Point A to Point B so Damn the Torpedoes and GTF Out of My Way". 

I've never gotten used to that. Living in Boston, I learned that everyone understood Other People Existed so you learned quickly how to do the Weave. Navigate the oncoming crowd by making it obvious what your path will be. I got pretty good at it and could slide down Newbury and Boylston Streets at a good clip with no problem. Here in California however, it's sort of an undisciplined meander dead center in the aisle with the expectation that other people will get out of your way or go around. They know you're there, but you're just background noise. Which, you know, fine, but when I'm trying to follow A to the next aisle, the last thing I need is for you to push your cart in my way, stop dead center and abandon it as you walk over to the bags of apples you set your eye on. I know it's a bit of a cultural thing, but it does test my patience now and again...

Anyway! In other news, I believe I have found a solution to a problem that's been bothering me for the last month or so regarding Theadia! In particular, I've been trying to write a few of the WRITE THIS LATER chapters but feeling as though they're not quite working. I knew exactly why: I just didn't have any resonance with the character. The more I tried to write them, the more it felt as though I was trying too hard. Thing is, the scene needs to be in there, so I knew that it wasn't the scene itself but the character. I'd written two chapters with them in it, and was dreading writing more.

The other day while I was at work, it occurred to me: I do happen to have another secondary character that had been seriously underutilized, someone I introduced as a possible connection to one of the leads, and somehow forgot to use them anywhere. So over the last few days, I've been going through those new chapters and changing names (and genders as it happens, so I'd better keep an eye on pronouns!), and that seems to be working well. Hopefully the further I go with this revised character, the better the chapters will be!


Hope everyone has a good week ahead!

Not much going on this weekend other than we did our occasional Costco run today to pick up household needs, and to head over to the garden to plant the several things we bought at Sloat Gardens the other day. I've been trying to keep up with my new habit of truly having a day off where I don't have to pile it up with several events, errands or whatever. Just do what needs doing and relax.

The storm, by the way, is that school is starting back up this coming week. As I've said before, our local high school is just a few short blocks away from my store, and over the last several years, five days a week and often twice a day, we'll get hit with thirty to forty noisy teenagers coming in to buy chicken tenders and sour gummies. It only lasts for about twenty minutes, but it's the most stressful part of the day, especially when we happen to be short-staffed. Each year I keep hoping that the next class will be a bit less obnoxious (and stop stealing) (and stop standing in the middle of the aisles in complete obliviousness), but we shall see. For a very brief time the school's principal kept them from coming over by citing the rule that they're not supposed to cross the major boulevard to get here. [They can always walk a few blocks in a different direction to a different shopping area to buy food.]

Alas, I'm not looking forward to it, but I'm going to try to keep an even calm about it.

...until we officially move into our new place! I'm still trying to wrap my head around that. It's not helping that I feel like I've been putting off all the packing even though I've done quite a large amount of it (and tossing/donating) already. It's also not helping that the Day Job has had some of its busiest days in months these last couple of weeks. I'm deliberately running on half-speed to conserve energy -- I'm not as fast at work so I can keep some of that oomph to move boxes and bins over to the new place.

We've also been doing a lot of shopping lately, buying stuff for the new place. We've even gotten ourselves a membership to Costco after all these years! Not that we're about to buy Armageddon Preparation Size boxes of cereal mind you, just looking for good deals on things we frequently use and need like household stuff. We're also buying things other than bookshelves (heh) at Ikea for storage modules we will need. We're trying not to go overboard considering we're moving into a slightly smaller space and there's only so much space for storage, but being smart about the space we do have is important. I will be heading to said Costco later today to pick up some storage shelves for the garage.

And INTERNETS! As of yesterday we are all wired up at the new place so that's one more thing to cross off our to-do list. Yay!

I am a little worried about some of the stuff we're getting rid of, though I'm hoping that won't be too much of a problem. We'll be getting rid of our old Dyson vacuum cleaner which we've had for almost 20 years that STILL runs perfectly (not bad for a refurb at that) which I'm sure a neighbor will yoink. The living room couch is going to be tricky, though. It's the one we bought from Home Reserve, known for their really good durable furniture that comes in boxes that you put together yourselves. I want to see if one of our neighbors wants it first before I put it up on FB Marketplace. I'd rather someone take it because aside from a bit of wear and sun fade, it's still in great condition, but if we have to toss it, at least it's gotten sixteen years of use!

I'll be honest, what's bothering me the most is that I'm barely getting any writing work done. I'd packed all my notebooks and brought them over to the new place so I haven't done any journaling in ages. I might squeeze in a few pages of revision and editing on the trilogy remaster, but that's about it. I just haven't had the time. I'd expected this and I'm using the time as a bit of a vacation from all that, but I am SO itching to get back to it once we've moved.

On that note, I have today and tomorrow off and I'd better get moving. Still using pockets of time to rest and relax, but I still have a lot to do.

Wait, is that blue sky I see outside the window...? It's been a weird wave of good and bleh weather over the last several weeks -- and it's been quite nice when I'm stuck inside at work for hours on end -- so it's a pleasant surprise when the fog and the clouds have dissipated for the moment.

A and I walked to the other end of Clement for the farmer's market, and I think I can safely say that with all the walking I do at work, a simple just-over-a-mile walk up to Arguello and Clement has become a pleasant one rather than an exhausting one. We picked up various tasty fruits and veggies (A wanted some squash for pickling purposes, I wanted some Concord grapes which are finally in season again), and had a very filling lunch of chilaquiles at Taqueria Los Mayas. [We of course took the bus home because we were now carrying many things.]

It's been a very busy month both here in Spare Oom and at the Day Job, but I think I've managed to maintain that balance and get most things done that I'd been wanting to do. I feel that the writing work could use a bit more focus, but I'm not too worried about it considering most of it is revision right now. Still, I'd like to be a bit more serious and consistent about it. Maybe come October...?

Which reminds me, I am going against my better judgement and doing Inktober this year. Whether it'll be on paper or elsewhere, I'm not sure, but we shall see.

Before my PC went all funky last month, I had a really good habit of running various cleaning apps on Sunday afternoons just to keep it in tip-top shape. (And considering I did that with my old PC and it still runs fine after four years, that's saying something.) Unfortunately I've been distracted by other things on the weekends so I've been missing it for weeks at a time.

Which is not as bad as something else I'd do on Sundays, which is water the plants in Spare Oom. I was reminded by A some weeks ago that I really needed to do that as some of them were looking extremely wilty. I am now back in the habit of watering the plants, running the PC cleaners, and doing any other around-the-house stuff that needs doing. I'd have done laundry today as well, but a) I'd forgotten to ask A to pick up quarters (which I can get at work tomorrow) and b) we spent most of today in the East Bay shopping at Ikea and elsewhere in Emeryville. 

In the meantime, I've also done some much-needed dusting and putting away of things, so all I need to do now is prep a few blog entries for the week and maybe get a bit of revision work done as well.

Today we drove down to the IKEA in Palo Alto for various home-related things. The weather was quite nice for the most part and we haven't done any major road trips lately, so why not? We may have spent a bit more than expected, but it was worth it. One of the major things was to get new dishes, as we've had our old fiesta ware once since we moved out here in 2005 and they're getting quite worn. We also got a duvet cover in the hopes that this will keep Certain Destructive Kitties from further destroying our comforter, and a few storage bins for the kitchen and Spare Oom. [I bought a standalone wire mesh storage thingie that I can put under my desk as I have lots of space under there. I figure that'll clear up the desk space a bit as well.] On the drive back we took the main surface roads instead and though it took a good hour and a half or so, it was worth it!

Meanwhile, I have been told by the landlady that our washing machine is borked (I think the agitator is broken as it popped out of place when I was using it the other day) but it won't be fixe for another week due to the usual repair team being booked up. Which means that I'll be spending tomorrow morning (I have tomorrow off) heading over to our local laundromat again. The good thing is that I can use multiple machines and it'll take much less time, so if I do it in the morning I'll be back before lunch. Which means I'll have to think of a few writing-related things to do while I'm at the laundromat instead of goofing off online. I'm all caught up with the Trilogy reread, so maybe I'll read What I Have So Far of MU4 instead...? Or maybe go over what notes I have so far? We shall see.

Of course, this also means tomorrow will also be partially spent putting the two IKEA items that need building. That shouldn't take long, however...!

At the moment the Day Job has settled into a schedule that allows me Saturday afternoons off as well as the entirety of Sunday, so we've made our weekend plans accordingly. And given that we've been lucky with the weather for the most part, we've been out and about! Yesterday we made our way over to the Botanical Garden as the magnolias are just about to bloom (it's still a bit early so not all of them were out yet) then stopped at the Richmond Republic (one of our favorite local alehouses) for dinner. And today we visited the Haight for the first time in ages, checking out some of the nicer houses off the main drag and visiting some of our favorite stores as well.

It's still a bit cold and it rained late in the afternoon today, but it does feel really good to get out again!

It's been a relaxing week here, spending the time focusing writing catch-up and driving A up to Corte Madera on Friday for her booster shot, and seeing her parents for a quick lunch and shopping. (We spent yesterday just kicking around as A was tired and sore from the shot and I had a few things I wanted to finish up. And Sunday has pretty much become household errand day around these parts.) 

I have been thinking of what my next writing project (or projects?) may be, but at the moment I'm still keeping that open for now, so I can continue to focus on Queen Ophelia and Theadia. Still, it's always a good thing to let my mind wander a bit for that sort of thing. I do have a few very vague ideas but I'd really need to spend an afternoon or two to work them out into a workable outline to see if they're worth expanding on. I'll most likely do that in the next few weeks or so.

And I restarted my daily stretches and exercises again! Those didn't quite fall by the wayside so much as I was just busy and considered our few-days-a-week neighborhood walk as part of that. I figure now is a perfect time to start them up again, considering a) I'm not currently ailing with some weird back twinge of dubious origin, and b) I have the time and the mindset to do so. (I should probably keep a better watch on my diet as well, to be honest. I've been snacking and drinking too much soda lately.)

Not much planned for the week other than writing, job searches, and doing a double donation drop-off at Goodwill and the SF Public Library. Yay for clearing up Spare Oom floor! We have a goodly amount of things to get rid of and I'll be happy when I'm not climbing over it anymore.

Oh, and I'm on jury duty the week of the 18th. Fun! This will of course depend on whether they'll actually have it or delay it due to Covid reasons, but I don't even know which court house I need to go to! I'm hoping it's the one near City Hall, because the one in SoMa is a HUGE pain in the butt to get to and all its nearby parking lots aren't in the safest of areas. Either way, I'll need to do one of those call-ups the night before to know for sure.


Hope everyone has a lovely week!

Our weekends are usually reserved for outside excitement -- we're usually holed up all day long during the week that we like to get some fresh air and a good long walk in on our days off. Yesterday we took a drive down to Half Moon Bay for the first time in ages -- mainly to get some sun, which we hadn't seen in our own neighborhood in a good few weeks! It was fleeting but it was worth it, as we were able to get our sunshine as well as some tasty brunch at the Main Street Grill, which we love stopping at. We even bought more plants at a small garden pop-up across the street!

And today was our "get our walking out of the way so we can be lazy for the rest of the afternoon" day. I had a book to pick up at Green Apple (the new Becky Chambers), so we headed up to that great coffee spot on 8th and Cabrillo (there's always a line outside the door, but their Whopper Lattes are SOOOO tasty), circled over to Clement for books and brunch (so happy that Richmond Republic is back open!), then headed home.

Which means it's early afternoon and I have little to do except laundry, vacuuming and catching up on my blogs!

But yeah...our summer doldrums are really kicking in because it stays so overcast and foggy on this side of town. We're both really looking forward to more sunny days.


Hope everyone has a lovely week ahead!