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Jun. 5th, 2026 07:46 pmI've been feeling frustrated lately with my creative endeavors...or more to the point, the lack thereof.
I mean, I should be excited about working on Theadia, now that I've got a clearer idea of what I want to do with it. I should be excited about all of it: doing the daily words, the drawing, the music, like I have in the past because it's something I've always enjoyed doing. But somehow, at some point, I just...stopped. I know it was a mix of things: real life/day job stress, mental exhaustion, emotional exhaustion, internet distraction, music library obsession, comic reading obsession, and maybe even just a bit of Getting Older. I'll allow myself days off when I need to rest, of course (something I often forgot to do during the Belfry Years), but I've really let myself go these days, and I hate that feeling.
I seem stuck in the Preparation Phase yet never following through. I'll think about writing or drawing or whatever but never actually do it. I don't think this is the same as the Boston Years when I was just starting out. That was a different approach: that was me learning how to focus, but it was also my way of avoiding an emotional spiral given the financial situation I was in.
This is pure distraction, plain and simple.
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So the last couple of days I've been trying to restart it all. I'm deliberately not trying to do it all at once, because then it all starts feeling like High School Homework Due Tomorrow That I Should Have Completed Three Days Ago. I'm restarting it gradually instead. Making those mixtapes I haven't made in a couple of years. Posting at the blogs when I have the time and something interesting to talk about. Popping onto 750 Words when I feel like working out a story idea. Journaling when the thought strikes me and the notebook is at hand. Eventually I'll fire up Word and start working on Theadia again, maybe even playing around with Decline and Fall on the 750. And on my days off I'll pick up the guitar and play a tune or two just for the hell of it.
I don't think I need to rigidly plan all of this, but I think I should at least make a more concerted effort to meet my own expectations. If I'm doing one of my morning shifts at the day job, I have more than enough time to work on something in the afternoon. Same with the midshifts: I have at least four or so hours before I need to go in. I need to be better at acting on that urge to create instead of distracting myself.
I mean, I should be excited about working on Theadia, now that I've got a clearer idea of what I want to do with it. I should be excited about all of it: doing the daily words, the drawing, the music, like I have in the past because it's something I've always enjoyed doing. But somehow, at some point, I just...stopped. I know it was a mix of things: real life/day job stress, mental exhaustion, emotional exhaustion, internet distraction, music library obsession, comic reading obsession, and maybe even just a bit of Getting Older. I'll allow myself days off when I need to rest, of course (something I often forgot to do during the Belfry Years), but I've really let myself go these days, and I hate that feeling.
I seem stuck in the Preparation Phase yet never following through. I'll think about writing or drawing or whatever but never actually do it. I don't think this is the same as the Boston Years when I was just starting out. That was a different approach: that was me learning how to focus, but it was also my way of avoiding an emotional spiral given the financial situation I was in.
This is pure distraction, plain and simple.
*
So the last couple of days I've been trying to restart it all. I'm deliberately not trying to do it all at once, because then it all starts feeling like High School Homework Due Tomorrow That I Should Have Completed Three Days Ago. I'm restarting it gradually instead. Making those mixtapes I haven't made in a couple of years. Posting at the blogs when I have the time and something interesting to talk about. Popping onto 750 Words when I feel like working out a story idea. Journaling when the thought strikes me and the notebook is at hand. Eventually I'll fire up Word and start working on Theadia again, maybe even playing around with Decline and Fall on the 750. And on my days off I'll pick up the guitar and play a tune or two just for the hell of it.
I don't think I need to rigidly plan all of this, but I think I should at least make a more concerted effort to meet my own expectations. If I'm doing one of my morning shifts at the day job, I have more than enough time to work on something in the afternoon. Same with the midshifts: I have at least four or so hours before I need to go in. I need to be better at acting on that urge to create instead of distracting myself.
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